TIME'S WRATH
Ecc 9:11 I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.
Time is the one element that people cannot manipulate or coerce. Time cannot be controlled or mass produced. Black women do not consider the significant impact of time when it comes to love relationships. A 25 year old young female grad student with beautiful features has greater social value in the love market than a 51 year old divorcee, who may be a corporate executive, even though she may have wealth, education , and may also be attractive. However she is not as attractive as the 25 year grad student. Even to a man who is in his 50's himself.
Women measure social marketability and value for themselves as they would a man. By what is done, instead of who she is. Men look at being first and accomplishments are secondary.
The question in a real man's mind is , who is this woman?
Is she kind?
Is she loving?
Is she beautiful?
Can she cook?
Does she like children?
Does she want children?
Is she clean?
Did she get along with her father?
Is she affectionate?
Is she in good physical condition?
Is she trustworthy?
These are just a few questions that enter a man's mind when he is interested in a woman.
Black people do not invest in their futures properly anymore. We live mainly for the moment. One reason for this is due to our legacy of slavery. The sheer brutality and larceny of our identity robbed us of our vision. We now allow others to shape our future here in America.
Too many black women lack social vision , whereas they short circuit the possibilities of a future husband when they are young by embarking on a trek of whoredom and vanity. This trek can start as early as 18 or 19 and last on up to 35. These are the prime years for her beauty and greatest potential to secure a husband. However this is not occurring in black society. Instead these years are spent having numerous sexual liaisons with various unworthy and vile men simply for gratification. She thinks she can operate as a man and not reap any repercussions. She later finds out after having two or three kids and no husband that it was all a trap. Now at 36 she is on the bottom of the social value scale in the eyes of most men and she is angry. She learns the hard way that TIME WAITS FOR NO ONE.
Time is the greatest thing you can give to the object of your affection. Not sex, money, entertainment, gifts etc.
If you want fulfilling, loving relationships you have to invest your time. Satan has structured American society in such a way that time is scarce and we spend it on selfish pursuits that may give us nominal pleasure jobs, careers, school, entertainment, hobbies etc. They all take up our time. Every one has an agenda, an itinerary , that has to be kept or so we think. We are deceived into thinking that the world will implode if we don't burn the midnight oil on our job. It won't , meanwhile the clock is ticking and you spend another day alone, hoping your prince or princess charming is just around the corner. Time is the ultimate carrot on a stick. Too many of us become spiritual procrastinators when it comes to love. We see it coming when we go grocery shopping, or going to the club, or Internet matchmaking sites, but it is COMING ONE DAY. That is what is going on inside our heads. It is a form of castle building, it is living the fairy tale of happily ever after. We just know that it will have a happy ending , because WE ARE TOO SPECIAL FOR IT NOT TO.
LOVE CHURN.
Love Churn: A Spiritual Perspective on Fleeting Relationships
The concept of "Love Churn" can be seen as a subtle yet profound strategy in the spiritual battleground of human relationships. It refers to the repetitive cycle of shallow, short-term, and unfulfilling romantic entanglements that, rather than fostering growth, love, and righteousness, lead individuals into emotional instability, spiritual stagnation, and moral compromise.
From a spiritual perspective, especially within Christian thought, love is designed to be a reflection of God's covenant—deep, intentional, and fruitful. However, in a world increasingly driven by instant gratification, superficial connections, and fleeting emotions, the sanctity and depth of love are often undermined. This is where the notion of "Love Churn" becomes particularly relevant.
1. The Enemy’s Strategy: Distraction Through Broken Connections
Satan’s goal is often not to lead people into obvious ruin but to distract, divide, and ultimately derail them from their divine purpose. In the realm of relationships, this can manifest as a cycle of emotionally draining and spiritually void connections. Each failed relationship leaves behind emotional baggage, eroded trust, and sometimes, a hardened heart. The enemy uses this churn to:
Distract from Purpose: Time and energy spent healing from repeated heartache detract from fulfilling God’s calling.
Breed Cynicism: Multiple failed relationships can foster mistrust and a hardened view of love, making individuals wary of genuine, godly connections.
Encourage Compromise: In the desperation to avoid loneliness or to find validation, individuals may settle for partners who lead them further away from their spiritual path.
2. The Deception of the Temporary
"Love Churn" thrives on the appeal of immediate satisfaction. In a culture that glamorizes casual dating, "situationships," and hookup culture, the enemy exploits the human desire for connection but distorts its purpose. Instead of relationships serving as spaces for mutual growth, accountability, and the pursuit of righteousness, they become sources of temporary validation that often leave individuals emptier than before.
The Bible warns against these surface-level pursuits in 2 Timothy 3:6, where it speaks of people who are “always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth.” In the context of love, this could be seen in those who constantly seek connection but never find the deep, covenantal love that mirrors God’s design.
3. The Consequences of Love Churn
Emotional Exhaustion: Constantly entering and exiting relationships can lead to emotional burnout, leaving individuals numb or disillusioned about love.
Spiritual Drift: As people become entangled in relationships that lack spiritual alignment, they may gradually drift from their faith foundations.
Broken Identity: Many begin to tie their self-worth to the acceptance or rejection they face in these cycles, leading to insecurity and an identity crisis.
4. Breaking Free: Embracing God-Designed Love
To escape the cycle of Love Churn, one must realign their perspective on love and relationships with God’s original intent. This involves:
Patience in Purpose: Understanding that love is not about fleeting emotions but about building a foundation rooted in shared values and spiritual growth.
Discernment in Connections: Praying for wisdom and spiritual insight before entering into relationships to ensure they align with God’s plan.
Healing from the Past: Acknowledging past wounds and allowing God to heal them to avoid carrying emotional baggage into new relationships.
5. Love That Bears Fruit
Ultimately, relationships should bear fruit—not just in companionship but in righteousness, peace, and purpose. The enemy wins small victories through cycles of broken love, but God’s desire is for believers to experience covenantal, enduring relationships that reflect His unconditional love.
In a world of Love Churn, the call is clear: step out of the cycle and into relationships that are intentional, spirit-led, and rooted in God’s eternal design.
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Satan knows that God gives us limited time on earth so if he can force us into short term unfulfilling relationships that don't bear fruit unto righteousness he has won a small victory. The promotion and glorification of thug love, down low homosexuality, lesbianism. dysfunctional hypergamy. These and other social maladies can have us running to and fro like hamsters on a treadmill running and running but not making any progress. Our lives then bear no fruit, which we will eventually have to give an account for. We also suffer from loneliness and love deprivation in the process. We are miserable and unfaithful as a result and this pleases the enemy.
KELVIN L. STUBBLEFIELD IS A GRADUATE OF Middle Tennessee State University IN 1983.
HE IS THE AUTHOR OF “AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD'S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN”. THAT WAS PUBLISHED IN 2012.
HE AND HIS WIFE SANDRIA, CO-FOUNDED “BIGSTUB CREATIONS” IN 2018. We are a vehicle for creativity! Our mission is to encourage individuals to utilize their artistic expression through the performing arts.
He has recently published his second book in November 2023.
STAYING HUMAN: EXAMINING THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN GOD, MAN AND ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE”.
Biblical, Spiritual, and Social Analysis and Solutions to Black Americans and Mainstream AMERICAN Dysgenics, Narcissistic Self Indulgence, and the Current Politics of Self Annihilation. Amidst the dawning of Artificial General intelligence and Trans-Humanity.
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